Not long ago, I was working with a group of executives in a trust building exercise. Â As the exercise progressed, the participants began to share more about themselves. Â At one point, a very senior member of the group told a story about a meaningful experience he has cherished over the years. Â He said that he had spent the first four years of his career as a ninth-grade teacher. Â He then left teaching to launch his managerial career. Â That was over twenty years ago. Â Recently he was walking through a mall when someone called his name. Â He turned to see a lovely woman. Â She introduced herself as one of his former students. Â He remembered her, and they had a delightful few minutes of conversation. Â As she was about to walk away, she stopped, held his hand, and said, “I really need to thank you. Â You were the best teacher I ever had.”
At this point in the story, the senior executive paused and started to weep. Â Finally he said, “That event meant a great deal to me. Â It meant that I made a difference in her life.”
These were feelings of joy that come only with a personal achievement in which we feel we have made an essential contribution. Â Oddly enough, those same feelings of achievement are often mixed with a sense of awe and humility. Â I believe the sense of awe stems from experience the magnificence of transformation. Â The humility stems from knowing we are necessary but, alone, insufficient.
The process of transformation is always bigger than we are. Â It requires a supportive universe. Â As we take part in the process, experiencing the transformation of energy, becoming aware that the universe actually needs us and that we need the universe, we join in a dance of co-creation. Â We become aware of our own simultaneous potential and dependence.
(Change the World, p. 3)
